If you don't think he loves you, you are probably correct. Our minds do not want to accept uncomfortable facts and it may be that you know a man doesn't love you but you do not want to fact the reality of the situation.But if you want to process the question in your mind, here are a few ideas to ponder.
First, when a man loves a woman he expresses it in some way. Now the particulars of the expression may differ. He may verbally share his feelings or he may show his love by giving gifts, doing something to please you, or displaying acts of care.
If you see no signs of love, he most likely isn't loving you.
Having said this, at times life gets busy and we may become less attentive to our partner or spouse. If a man has to work a little extra to meet a deadline, or if a guy isn't as expressive as usual it doesn't mean he is all of a sudden falling out of love with you.
If however, you notice that your partner doesn't want to be with you, doesn't have an emotional connection, doesn't show any signs of care or love, you are most likely reading the situation accurately.
This doesn't mean things can't change. People reignite feelings of love and care all the time. It does mean that your relationship needs work.
Relationships are not static; they wax and wane continually. Relationships require energy, devotion, commitment, and investment to remain healthy and vibrant.
If you are wondering if your partner no longer loves you, start with a conversation, share your feelings, and listen to your heart...But..my opinion...In The begining of a relationship..if you dont notice at least devotion and big interest...dont even hell bother about the jerk!We deserve a lot better!
HOW TO TELL IF A MAN IS IN LOVE WITH YOU
1. Does he tell you? Does he express his love? Guys often don't say the words unless they feel it.
2. Does he look for excuses to be around you or communicate with you?
3. Does he stay interested after sex? Or is he interested in being with you even when there is not sexual intimacy?
4. Is he interested in your life? Or is the relationship all about him?
5. Does he put you first over ESPN or the latest video game? Guys who are in love want to be with their lover more than they want to watch the next football game.
6. Does he long for you when you are not together? Does he text, call, or email you often just to connect?
7. Does he look for ways to surprise and delight you? Does he do nice things for you, bring your flowers, write cute notes, or give you little gifts?
8. Does he want to care for you? Does he what to help you and make you happy?
9. Does he invest in the relationship? Does he give his time, energy, and emotions to you?
10. Does he want to be emotionally intimate with you. Does the relationship consist of more than the superficial? Does he share his thoughts and feelings with you?
So, if you are wondering, look for the above signs and trust your instinct! :)
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